by Bodleian Library
Dona Tt think that your wife has placed waste-paper baskets in the rooms as ornaments.Dona Tt forget that very true remark that while face powder may catch a man, baking powder is the stuff to hold him.Marriage can be a series of humorous miscommunications, a power struggle, or a diplomatic nightmare. Men and women have long struggled to figure each other outa and the misunderstandings can continue well after theya Tve been joined in matrimony. But long before Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, couples turned to self-help booklets such as How to Be a Good Husband and How to Be a Good Wife, two historic advice books that are now delightfully reproduced by the Bodleian Library. The books, originally published in the 1930s for middle-class British couples, are filled with witty and charming aphorisms on how wives and husbands should treat each other. Some advice is unquestionably outdateda a It is a wifea Ts duty to look her best. If you dona Tt tidy yourself up, dona Tt be surprised if your husband begins to compare you unfavorably with the typist at the officea a but many other pieces of advice are wholly applicable today. They include such insightful sayings as: a Dona Tt tell your wife terminological inexactitudes, which are, in plain English, lies. A woman has wonderful intuition for spotting even minor departures from the trutha ; a After all is said and done, husbands are not terribly difficult to managea ; or a Dona Tt squeeze the tube of toothpaste from the top instead of from the bottom. This is one of the small things of life that always irritates a careful wife.a Entertaining and charmingly illustrated, How to Be a Good Husband and How to Be a Good Wife offer enduringly useful advice for all couples, from the newly engaged to those celebrating their golden anniversary.